Fool's Gold

Yeah because in our generation, it's almost shameful to talk about how you're a virgin.
And the fellas are likely to ridicule and disparage you if you've only a theoretical knowledge of 'sexing'.
So of course he makes up stories.
Of course he knows she's a slut.
He wants to feel like his homies, 
So he weaves tales about his uncontrollable lust.
Suddenly it's weak to have intellectual conversations 
Or watch movies that leave you deep in thought.
All everyone seems to talk about are their favorite 'positions',
Or the size of some girl's butt.

But in time fellas become fathers 
- Hopefully from someone they managed to put a ring on - 
And supposing your little girl became some guys statistic
Would you have the tongue to say that he is wrong?
Because it wasn't a big deal when it was another girl 
What did you care about how she was cherished by her father?
'Boys will be boys' became the mantra you chanted well;
And even after you made your shamelesness another bestseller
It never occurred to you that you became the beast to that belle.

So now there are blurry cutout pieces of many 'hers'
in the catalogue of conquests you built through the years.
But in the end does it really leave you satisfied
Or does the echo of your lacking substance ring in your ears?
There is no glory in being a slave to your urges,
It is no art to destroy perfectly crafted hearts. 
Plus there is a jealous One who made the bodies you keep defiling... 
I just thought to remind you of that fact.

xxx, Kwiksie.

The Woman I Want To Be series (Part 10)

     The Woman Who Honors Her Parents.

     Exodus 20:12, Leviticus 19:3, Deuteronomy 5:16, 1 Timothy 5:4 and Ephisians 6:1-3, are some scriptures expressing the importance You place on the respect and honor we show to the primary individuals You've placed over us on this earth. Though each individual is unique, and parenting styles cannot all be the same, I am fully aware that I could never have better parents than the ones You have blessed me with. Sure they can improve and better align their hearts, minds and actions to Your desires and instructions, but it's not like I could select two individuals who'd 'fit' me better. Even if they didn't get to know You, nor learn to treat me with love, kindness, or consideration, I'd yet have reason to thank You for salvation, for helping me endure in love and righteousness, for equipping me with the grace to forgive any wrongs done to me, and for the power in your word and prayer. Still, I'm grateful that I've been blessed with people who're devoted and loyal to You.

I am the woman who consistently treats her parents with high respect, as befitting under-shepherds of Jesus . You have a reason for placing them as my earthly heads and I will value them as stewards you use to guide me, and vessels who help to impart your wisdom and truth to me. I refuse to succumb to the temptation to be haughty or insolent in my relations with them; even when we disagree. Help me to be reminded that because they know You and practice loving like You do, that their every action is taken with the intent of providing the best for me. If ever their desires or instructions are in contradiction to your will and plans for my life, help me express my refusal to such in love and not in arrogance, and give me the wisdom to handle such situations only in a manner that would bring you honor and joy.

I live my life to honor You, and that includes honoring my parents.

xxx, Kwiksie.